What matters?

Once you understand how your words affect someone’s whole life, their decisions, their behaviour, their view about themselves and about the world, you will surely think before you speak. You will understand what really matters!

The hair, the nose, the lips,
The ears, the neck, the hips,
The shades, the thickness,
The belly fat, the fitness,
The arms, the stretchmark,
The wheatish, the fair, the dark,
That dark circle, or the hairy chest,
Baldhead, or size of the breast,
Thin, abs, or stout,
Glasses, Braces, with or without,
Few things are in and few are not in our control.
From when did these things become a reason to troll?

Our identification marks are not who we are,
We call people by how they look and not by what they are!

We have dived so deep in this,
that this has become the new normal,
calling a sane person “mad” and “mental”,
we have proudly become judgemental.

We need to look cool,
and laugh with our gang,
by trolling someone,
who does not even understand the meaning of the slang.

Where are we moving to, as a society?
In school books, lost are the lessons of empathy.
When will we understand what really matters?
Trolling does not build hope for someone, it shatters and scatters.


  1. “Trolling can cause significant harm and distress. It is associated with serious physical and psychological effects, including disrupted sleep, lowered self-esteem, depression, self-harm, suicidal ideation, and in some cases, even suicide.” – www.theconversation.com
  2. Bullying, Cyberbullying, & Suicide Statistics – https://www.meganmeierfoundation.org/statistics
  3. How Strong Is the Link Between Bullying and Suicide? – https://www.verywellfamily.com/
  4. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention


5 Responses

  1. Neha says:

    Hmmm….aaj is bahri dikhave ki duniya me log bhi bahri roop ko dekhate hai na ki antarman ko…isilye to bahut log dhokha khate hai …koi bhi apne aap se khush nahi bas dusaro ki tarah banana aur karna chahta hai…isi chakkar me apni puri life nikal dete hai…koi kuch bhi comment kare aapki body ya shape ko lekar kisi k kahne se koi farak nahi padna chahiye troll karne wale kya khud perfect hai…they are the most imperfect people jo dusaro par comment karte hai…

  2. Neha says:

    Trolling ko bhi log trend samjhate hai…media sabse badi wajah hai in sab cheezo k liye….70 % youth trend ko hi follow karte hai chahe wo sahi ho ya galat…

  3. Megha khandelwal says:

    Actually I was one of them… I was always underconfident when it comes to looks… I m short hight, wheatish, not good in singing.. mjhe hmesha lgta tha, jinki height acchi hoti hai, unki personality dikhti hai… Bt after my marriage, I got the answer… Height, complexion, figure r just a covering… The main body is what u r!! From inside..

  4. Megha khandelwal says:

    I m not beautiful, bt people say I have a beautiful soul.. which matters a lot… Covers fade hote hai, soul nhi..

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